Does your ex still have feelings for you? Well! Finding out this can be made possible through a little maneuver in your manners.
After a break-up, emotions can be high and feelings can be hurt; however, after sometime has passed and things have cooled down, it may be a good idea to see whether those passionate feelings still exist. The only true way of finding this out is by using thoughtful and creative ways to rekindle the flames. It is important to evaluate the mental state of your partner first to be able to craft an action plan. It can be easy or challenging when trying to figure out how to win your ex back, but with determination and patience, it can be accomplished.
Get Together: Allow distance between you and your partner before setting up a date to see where the relationship stands. This is the best chance in revealing what your partner truly thinks without feelings being hurt. A visit to a local coffee shop, restaurant or even a park is suitable. Invite friends along to make it less tense if needed. It is best to include common friends between the two of you to allow for reasoning and comfort. The discussion needs to be maintained at a neutral level as this initial meeting is to determine your partner’s temperament. Keep the conversation light and make the evening one to remember.
Be Forthcoming & Honest: Experts say the best way to avoid arguments is by using “I” statements instead of “YOU” statements, so when you are speaking to your partner, let them know how certain things have made you feel without bashing; after all, it is you who wants to reconcile. After a break-up, raw honesty will be displayed, but it is important to remember that most things said after a break-up are not intentional. Just be completely honest with what you have to say to your partner and do not set high expectations for the same courtesy to be given back to you.
Talk Openly: Don’t turn this get together into an awkward one, instead talk freely about subjects that you know interests your partner. Keep the conversation light and breezy as this is the best way to see your partner’ true reaction to certain information. If you miss being with your partner, then tell them. Don’t be afraid of what they might say because you ultimately need to hear what your partner’s response will be. It is the only true way to find out if it answers the question: does your ex still have feelings for you?
Control Yourself: Perhaps after an intimate get together, those passionate feelings will suddenly arise again. You may find yourself lusting after your partner as a last hope to fix the broken relationship. Loveless sex is a disaster waiting to happen as it can leave you or your partner feeling confused about where the relationship stands. It is best to leave physical contact to a minimum while you are in the beginning stages of fixing the relationship. Try to move slowly if it is needed and talk about intimacy with your partner to see how he/she feels.
Be Sentimental: To accurately determine if your ex still has feelings for you, remind them of the special times you had together. Talk about incidents where you were there for your partner emotionally and vise versa. Mention the bad times and how the two of you worked together to solve whatever problem. Read the expression on your ex’s face to see how they respond to this kind of talk to truly tell if he/she cares or not.
After all of this, does your ex still have feelings for you? Well, each situation and relationship is going to be different. It is how you talk with him/her that really shows if the relationship will work or not. Even if your ex doesn’t admit it, he/she once or still has feelings for you, so there is chance that he/she will care for you again. The best way to winning back your ex is by taking baby steps because one false move could determine whether or not the relationship stays afloat or sinks.
Sometimes it is encouraging to see how others got their exes back. You are able to examine what they did, how they did it and how you can incorporate any tips or advice into your action plan. For each person, getting your ex to take you back is going to be different, but it doesn’t hurt to see what available help is out there. I’ve talked freely about my successes and downfalls and all of that can be found right here.